CUrlymafurly
CUrlymafurly t1_j69wcsa wrote
Reply to Dickens' David Copperfield: Were men more affectionate with each other in the 18th century? by angelojann
The general understanding as I learned getting my masters was that the friendship between two men was, historically, seen as a more noble and valuable kind of love or affection because you didn't "get" anything out of it but the friendship. No, titles, no heir, no political alliances. The value was placed only in the friendship itself since all you got was the other's company
Such isn't to say that some of that love might have gone a bit further than that would have let on back then, but you've got to remember how drastically gender norms have changed, even within the last few decades. As other's have mentioned, some cultures today show male friendship by holding hands or even kissing, it isn't necessarily UNUSUAL unless society seems it so. With literature over 150 years old, some things are obviously going to change
CUrlymafurly t1_j5zjv56 wrote
Reply to comment by robplumm in Asteroid 2023 BU about to pass Earth in one of closest ever encounters by C1519
Well reason number one is we keep getting better at detecting things like this
And reason number two is scary headlines get clicked on a lot
CUrlymafurly t1_jaddrl2 wrote
Reply to My great-great-great-grandma from 1889 in Wales by CharlieRex0205
She just LOOKS like she gives great hugs.