Looks like you and his ex got too old for his taste.

Get ready to waste a shit ton of years on someone who'll never actually love you and never make you a priority. Putting your entire life on hold after a clear "No" a million times is plain foolish.

You'll regret wasting all this time on someone who never really wanted you to begin with and who literally told you this. I've made that mistake. Don't do it. Distance yourself from this friend a bit and find a woman who actually wants you.

Honestly, it just seems like OP doesn't even have genuine feelings for him. Nowhere does she mention it. Only that he treats her well and he's a nice guy and just gave him a chance. Maybe that's the issue.

Then don't ask stupid questions. You wanted to cheat, you got what you deserved.

Reminds me of those Tik Tok videos where the woman snoops through the partner's phone only to find out he tried to cheat but failed because nobody wanted him. Cringe.

I hope this is a shit post. You're not asking for any advice either.

>If I add a video to my hidden folder I never view it again

This implies she added videos of exes every time she dated/slept with someone. I'm sure she was reminded on a regular base since she was building a collection with different guys in that folder.

Sexting someone else than your partner is cheating.

No, obviously you create a hidden folder, store them all there and then never view them again.

Makes no damn sense OP saved them in a saved folder if her intention was to never watch them again. Lmfao.

With headphones on? I watched that anime, it'd be weird af masturbating while hearing kids' voices.

The only reply that matters. If you are hiding shit, you know it is wrong.