You’re right. Trust me. I would give this same advice to a friend. I am just saying that up and leaving is not really possible in the moment and I have no clue how to get my point across

It really got me mad, though I didn’t attack him. I simply asked why he was asking that and was he trying to connect weird dots. I could tell by his tone he wasn’t ok. Not sure what I’m supposed to say nicely to that? I couldn’t believe that me innocently showering meant something negative. It’s mainly the aftermath that I’m fuming about though.

The kids don’t see him verbally attacking me. It’s mainly through text. Or very quickly when we are alone. I don’t actively fight in front of them. It isn’t an excuse it’s just the situation I am in with the baby. Had I not had a baby, I could really just up and go and figure things out. I feel the baby complicates things by 10,000