At least you're recognizing it now. If you don't like what you're becoming, then that needs to be the motivation for your want to change. My point is that you don't need the gym to be active with people you like to have fun with. Go play outside with your friends.

There's no problem with staying at maintenance, as long as you don't eat too much junk and don't get too sedentary with your lifestyle doing activities with your girlfriend to keep your health and motivations in check. Once that starts to slip later on in life, that's the time you'll have a wake-up call.

Not weiner but balls definitely

Obviously, they're blind.