Cuemaster

Cuemaster t1_j3l834f wrote

Reply to comment by FoldingFan1 in LPT request: how do i trick myself into enjoying chores? by Ok_Bear976

Yes, every chore is making you home nicer, cleaning and putting away just just part of life. Don't complicate cleaning with to many expensive products. A damp cloth for cleaning dust off surfaces, a cloth with warm soapy water for kitchen area, bathroom etc. Clean up spills before they dry, or after a meal. This is 90% of work done...

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Cuemaster t1_j3kvfya wrote

Reply to [TEXT] Since my childhood I fail almost at everything. I spent so many nights with anger shame or sadness. But if I try again it’s because deep in my heart something tells me that one day I’m going to succeed by Sea-Data-1386

Ok I'll politely sugest you don't know what you are doing, you need to learn the process or technique for the task.

Often we get tangled in the "learn by your mistakes" culture.

I sugest reading or watching YouTube or observing others etc, to understand the task. Use Google to find instructions or procedures, find those task checklists or info graphic diagrams or flow charts etc.

Before starting, asses your knowledge of the task, rehearse procedures to simulate the event and review your ability.

Work with some one and observe what they do and aim to replicate the process. This way you will be more familiar and more confident of the task.

Generally speaking if you don't know, you aren't ready to start, so do some 'homework' and learn, you will know when you're ready...

Cheers..

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Cuemaster t1_j273orj wrote

Reply to LPT: Don't just wait for your turn to speak, try to actually listen to what other people say by [deleted]

To many people don't know how to have a conversation.

They listen to someone talk, and as soon as they can, they take over and talk. It just takes me to mention one key word or place and a friend takes over and says they went there and did that and had a great time....

Even worse, I find if I mention any place I visited, she will say "one of my clients went there" then list of the things at the place that everyone does. Sad part is she works at the business lounge at the airport. Its all other people's stories she is retelling...

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