So you know their wedding isn't about you and what you want, right? Why would you feel "betrayed"? If Jen and you were planning a wedding and she secretly invited kids, oh yes that's betrayal. But a whole different couple, doing what they want for their wedding isn't betraying you.
You need to grow up. Children are everywhere. You're entitled to a child free life, not a child free world.
Cyborg_sam t1_j6izrli wrote
Reply to I told my GF (30F) I (31M) don't want to go to her brother's wedding because it isn't CF and I think (?) we may have just broken up because of it? by ThrowRA_MJSA
So you know their wedding isn't about you and what you want, right? Why would you feel "betrayed"? If Jen and you were planning a wedding and she secretly invited kids, oh yes that's betrayal. But a whole different couple, doing what they want for their wedding isn't betraying you.
You need to grow up. Children are everywhere. You're entitled to a child free life, not a child free world.