Is it underrated though?

Seems like a movie that is remembered fondly by most people.

My parents were never strict about what I was allowed to see, sure there were things they wouldn't necessarily take me to or show me, but there wasn't really anything they tried to prevent me from seeing on my own volition, they never gave me any rules.

Also sorry to hear about your loss OP, hope that you and your loved ones will get through it.