Get a paternity test and if he is yours step up. They have cheap home ones that you can get at CVS but if she comes for child support you will need a court ordered one. Nothing else to do. If she wont get a test that means he probably isn't yours.

I think you are being a little too hard on yourself. BUT I would probably go hang out and drink till 10 and be home waiting for him when he gets home.

Like I said normally I would say leave.

Yeah you are being petty and stupid. AND proving her point that you are mean to her when she has done nothing to you.

Run from this as far and as hard as you can.

Usually I would say leave but if drinking was involved I would say give it a try if he will stop drinking.

White lie, I would try and get over this but make sure she understood that any further lying in the relationship will not be tolerated.

Couples therapy can be a good place to discuss finances so you can have some backup and somebody to keep him accountable.

But frankly sitting down and telling him how close you are to divorce over this issues doesn't get his head out of his ass then nothing probably will.

Nope you gave him enough chances and should have only given him one. Move on hun he isn't doing the work its not on you.

No not really. Any other way creates awkwardness and misinterpretation. Ask simply and directly and leave it at that.

"Hey any chance I could take you on a date x night?" If she says no then you know and leave it at that. Only way to not make it weird.