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DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6pbibs wrote
Reply to comment by sleepingfox307 in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
Thanks man, I will keep my head up
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6pbbbe wrote
Reply to comment by hedbryl in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
I was sure of it at the time and it needed to be done. She said that one day she hopes our paths cross again. I am just missing the good times man, I know this is a bad idea. I pretty much said this when we were breaking up, she didn't want to try and save it, she said she felt the same way about breaking up too. I loved her so I let her go, I did that because she didn't prioritize me and it felt like I was a FWB sometimes.
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6paj4r wrote
Reply to comment by sleepingfox307 in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
We did end things on a good note. I said pretty much the same thing, I broke it off because I didn't feel like she prioritized me and was distancing herself from me. We wouldn't go on dates and when I was down visiting her she spent some of the time with some guys besides me on my last day at her university.
I said I want someone who is stoked to see me and chooses me first over some other guys. She said she felt the same way about breaking up for a while, we talked some more and she said hopefully when the time is right we will be back together and that there is a good chance we will get back together. We both said I love you, hugged, I gave her a last kiss, and left. I am just hurting now man, I know this isn't a good idea, but I just wish we didn't have to break up.
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6ozqns wrote
Reply to comment by Indecks9999 in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
You’re right, she didn’t really want to change anything
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6oznge wrote
Reply to comment by TheRivalxx in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
Do you think she would reach out even though I ended it with her? Is it a “rule,” not to text back the person who dumped you? So I would send this so she knows she can reach out.
I see your point though
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6oyxal wrote
Reply to comment by KurosakiOnepiece in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
Its to let her know that I love her and if she wanted to make things work its on her
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6oy1rk wrote
Reply to comment by GHERU42 in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
Should I send it or no. I want her to know this and it will be up to her if she wants to get back together
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6oxxm1 wrote
Reply to comment by southcoastal in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
It would let her know I am still open as long as she wants to work for it
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6owqlk wrote
I want to tell her this because I want things to work, but she didn’t seem to value me anymore. It seemed one sided in some aspects.
I want things to work and would work everyday on our relationship for it to work. It was just poor communication that caused the issues.
She said during the breakup maybe in the future we can get back together.
Idk if that is something you just say though.
I want to be with her but I want her to value me instead of me having to ask. I guess this would be me asking once again to work things out.
I just want her to know its when she is ready to commit rather than treat me poorly
DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6pby6q wrote
Reply to comment by quality_username_ in I (22M) broke up with my gf (f21) and I wanted to text her one last thing by [deleted]
I know its a bad idea, I didn't want to end things but I did because she didn't seem to prioritize me and I felt like I was losing her to other guys.
I pretty much said this during the break up, she didn't want to fight to make things work, she said she felt the same way about it not working out for a while. I love what she could be, and maybe if we communicated better it would have worked but that scenario is a make believe one.
I told her I love her and she said the same, she said there is a good chance we get back together. I just miss her man.