DistraugtlyDistractd

DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6pby6q wrote

I know its a bad idea, I didn't want to end things but I did because she didn't seem to prioritize me and I felt like I was losing her to other guys.

I pretty much said this during the break up, she didn't want to fight to make things work, she said she felt the same way about it not working out for a while. I love what she could be, and maybe if we communicated better it would have worked but that scenario is a make believe one.

I told her I love her and she said the same, she said there is a good chance we get back together. I just miss her man.

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DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6pbbbe wrote

I was sure of it at the time and it needed to be done. She said that one day she hopes our paths cross again. I am just missing the good times man, I know this is a bad idea. I pretty much said this when we were breaking up, she didn't want to try and save it, she said she felt the same way about breaking up too. I loved her so I let her go, I did that because she didn't prioritize me and it felt like I was a FWB sometimes.

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DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6paj4r wrote

We did end things on a good note. I said pretty much the same thing, I broke it off because I didn't feel like she prioritized me and was distancing herself from me. We wouldn't go on dates and when I was down visiting her she spent some of the time with some guys besides me on my last day at her university.

I said I want someone who is stoked to see me and chooses me first over some other guys. She said she felt the same way about breaking up for a while, we talked some more and she said hopefully when the time is right we will be back together and that there is a good chance we will get back together. We both said I love you, hugged, I gave her a last kiss, and left. I am just hurting now man, I know this isn't a good idea, but I just wish we didn't have to break up.

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DistraugtlyDistractd t1_j6owqlk wrote

I want to tell her this because I want things to work, but she didn’t seem to value me anymore. It seemed one sided in some aspects.

I want things to work and would work everyday on our relationship for it to work. It was just poor communication that caused the issues.

She said during the breakup maybe in the future we can get back together.

Idk if that is something you just say though.

I want to be with her but I want her to value me instead of me having to ask. I guess this would be me asking once again to work things out.

I just want her to know its when she is ready to commit rather than treat me poorly

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