Dont139

Dont139 t1_jadyb29 wrote

Do you think it's better for him to stay with someone that isn't attracted to him? One day he will know. Ans then how will he feel knowing you felt that way about him?

Break up.

Just tell him "i'm not happy. I like you a lot as a person, you are truly a great person, but i can sense, feel deep down this isn't the right fit for me. I truly wish you well"

1

Dont139 t1_jad72su wrote

Nope.

Unless you had an agreement, like he would pay you back, or put the funds down towards your common future in form of payment, you shouldn't

You took a chance. Being with someone is accepting the risk that it may not work out in the hand, but making the bet that it will. You gave money betting that you would stay together and marry and spend your life together. But you didn't. If you gave money because you wanted to help him, well you did. You being together or not does not change that.

2