Dramatic_Fix_3577
Dramatic_Fix_3577 OP t1_je9f8go wrote
Reply to comment by ___Phreak___ in TIFU by being myself i guess? by Dramatic_Fix_3577
Well, i don't disagree that i am a moron. But i think i kind of misexplained the children/housing Situation.:
Just in my point of view i would really like to build a house / home and then have kids. Financially there wouldn't be a Problem.
My gf on the other hand doesn't know when she wants to have kids and when she wants to buy a house. She always says she can still get pregnant at 35 e.g. if she wants to but i'm worried what will Happen then and if she still even wants kids
Dramatic_Fix_3577 OP t1_je9h9z8 wrote
Reply to comment by Altiverses in TIFU by being myself i guess? by Dramatic_Fix_3577
Well getting closer with my friends gf is no viable option for me. I wouldn't be able to Look at myself in the mirror. The only Thing i know is that no matter what, i want to go on being friends with him.
I'm just f*ing confused.
No matter what i have to talk to my gf to speak about what we want and if we do have the same goals.
What i have to See for myself is:
I am sorry, but guys - please don't interpret my writing too much. I am fighting against auto correction as i am not a native englisch speaker and i am writing the post and answers in the little free Time i have at work