Yeah we talked about that. I didn't know what I was doing at the time.
I did do some research though, and I was talking to her about boundaries and things we could be ok with together
And while it seems we can talk things out if my Friend ever comes up it feels like we just lose all progress working on it
I've been thinking that, I've talked to her about it and her response is "I can't tell her what she'd be ok with" and "we don't know what the Future holds" and pretty much that if I'm not willing to try out relationship then she understands but she loves me and wants to try to let me be me
DruHathaway OP t1_jaemlbk wrote
Reply to comment by MrsJonesy2012 in I'm (26f) failing poly, please help!! gf (25f), partner (19f) by DruHathaway
Yeah we talked about that. I didn't know what I was doing at the time. I did do some research though, and I was talking to her about boundaries and things we could be ok with together
And while it seems we can talk things out if my Friend ever comes up it feels like we just lose all progress working on it