Elegant_Ad_3620 t1_iuj2cv5 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:29 PM

Reply to comment by mganga_mzungu in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu

here is a recommendation...since you rely on them $$, get back on the calls and when brother starts to get pissy, say something like 'i don't know how to respond to that'. let your parents witness his pissiness. then when you are on your own, you can go NC>

Elegant_Ad_3620 t1_iuix4ka wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:54 PM

Reply to how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu

if your family is being dense about why you and your brother don't get along, then don't participate anymore. and why do you need to be polite with your mother about why you have not been on the calls? why can't you say 'I'm 21 and it's time to grow up. Bro continues to antagonize me in family events/calls and I'm done with it. Dad can fix this by fixing bro.