Let's see: A console with a service that gives you access to hundreds of games

Or

A console with 5 games

You need a membership to play online but it's only like 20 dollars per year, way cheaper than Sony's or Microsoft's offerings

Keep them, if you don't want them, sell them on eBay or something. Dkoldies is overpriced btw don't buy from them. Don't recycle them if you don't want them please just sell them. Someone else might want them and you can make money from it.

i have a ps5 and a series s. Both of them are really good, xbox has gamepass, which is incredibly worth it, and ps5 is backwards compatible with ps4 games so i can still play all of my ps4 games

depends. Do you like games like mario, zelda, pokemon? get a switch. Are you into any of the playstation exclusives? Get a ps5. I have both and i enjoy them both but it's a matter of what games you like. Also something to consider is that switch games are still expensive and never go on sale