I’m not going to say your bad, or anyone is in the wrong here. Sometimes people in relationships just drift apart. That’s what it sounds like with your bf. Just know when to let go. Don’t cheat and if things progress with your coworker, then it’s perfectly fine to pursue a relationship with him.

Get a job as a waiter/waitress/hostess at a fancy upscale restaurant….become a wine connoisseur, golf caddy?

I have no ideal, just blurting out stereotypical things that rich people may like to do.