F3aRtheMom

F3aRtheMom t1_j4x412m wrote

My dad died of ALS. He spent his time at home, and through Hospice, he was able to choose the day he gave up living. We were able to have family and friends the day he chose to remove the trach.

I was able to care for him for 6 months before he passed, by recreating an ICU room in his home. I gave him what he gave me, love, respect, and the care he deserved.

This wasn't how it would have been in a hospital. We should have the choice when a terrible illness or disease takes our lives, slowly and painfully.

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