But in answer to your questions, yes in a relationship especially before marriage both parties should work together and contribute more or less evenly regardless of gender.
In this specific relationship, she is clearly taking advantage of your kindness and you should break up with her.
Fearless_Outside_657 t1_iydlas1 wrote
Reply to Relationship standards. Is the Man supposed to “Provide”? This is 2022 by ThommyChi
First she’s gaslighting you.
But in answer to your questions, yes in a relationship especially before marriage both parties should work together and contribute more or less evenly regardless of gender.
In this specific relationship, she is clearly taking advantage of your kindness and you should break up with her.