Too late

Honestly I think you should’ve communicated that you were a virgin. If it’s with the right person, they’ll understand and it won’t be a big deal. Trying to act dominant and “alpha” when you clearly don’t know what you’re doing is not going to make you look “alpha.”

Why do you want her to view you as a dominant figure? Do you mean in general or do you want to be dominant in bed? If it’s the latter, you need to communicate these kind of things with your partner.

I have a question: what exactly do you mean by “alpha” status? When two people have sex, they should treat each other as equals.

Edit: rereading the post, you started listing sex positions you wanted to do on the way back to her place? Jeez my guy. An invitation to “hang at my place” is a way of saying you’re down for more intimacy, but you went way overboard and probably freaked her out a bit. She probably didn’t want to have sex with you anymore and gave you a handjob because she was afraid of what might happen otherwise.