You have a mooching bum, if you stay with him let us know how that works out for you.

Addiction issues won't fix themselves and homelessness won't give your children an environment you want them in. Cut him loose. Either demand he get his shit together or fuck off. He won't fix himself until someone hold his feet to the fire and he fixes his own issues.

My 1st question would be What's the legal age of consent in your state? 2ndly is him coming home a safety issue for you. If the answer is yes, you should heavily consider calling law enforcement. I'm not in your situation so you make the judgement call.

🚩 You need to get him into therapy now! ⚠️ Find a safe environment that you can go to at any immediately instance. ⚠️Also you need an emergency locator on your phone, if he snaps you need to be able to call 911 immediately. ⚠️ There are plenty of hidden apps in case of domestic violence. Reading what you said would put me on edge and would remove myself from that situation. 🚩 You're also going to have custody issues that would be of concern in the future.⚠️ Safety for them should be a priority as well (As in supervised visitation with a 3rd party) as well as 3rd party pick up/drop off. 🚩If you don't pay attention to the potential danger here, it could possibly cost you your life or your children's lives! The red flag is the calm and mellow contrast to the angry hidden person. I hope you can see the warning signs because they are right in front of your face!