Interesting;thanks ph4..corroborates the timeframe given by OP. I wonder if either one looks familiar to OP?

Reddit community…can we find a pre-shewee photo of a canadian wee funnel?

But..hypothetically someone could have had a somewhat isolated or informal upbringing and have less “socially guarded/careful” oriented approach to life without being “on the spectrum”, no? I mean is everything really about adhd and autism? What about, i dunno..general diversity of human experience?