40 something bf claimed to have no social media and further in, found tik tok with lots of inappropriate content . It really hurt. I’d only be worried if he’s doing something similar behind your back but not no social media for real

It’s weird you expect plans already for a major night such as NYE however it should be easy to Include you in plans - “hey good friend, can you ask your good friends if girl I’m seeing can come, she would like to join.” What’s the big deal?