HappinessOrgan
HappinessOrgan t1_jaevzva wrote
Reply to comment by clearwind in How do you know if someone is actually toxic if they insist they are always joking? by RxstySp00ns
What a soft boiled take lol
HappinessOrgan t1_jaeul1m wrote
Reply to comment by clearwind in How do you know if someone is actually toxic if they insist they are always joking? by RxstySp00ns
Bigggg disagree.
I have dynamics with some people where we reallyyyy rip on each other - like that shit gets creative. And if you're taking as much as your giving I see no problem. I also have many relationships where it comes no where close to that.
Not every toxic joke is rooted in sincerity. You just have to really know the people you choose to spend your time with
HappinessOrgan t1_jaf1to9 wrote
Reply to comment by RxstySp00ns in How do you know if someone is actually toxic if they insist they are always joking? by RxstySp00ns
Yeah, I've read a few of your replies. It doesn't seem the same at all really as your case. So I wouldn't take it as advice for sure
I just think it's a really weak (and simplistic) opinion to over generalize like that person did. There are many reasons a person could be "toxic" to you without them actually being a toxic person