Thanks, this definitely sucks lol but life goes on.

You know, I’ve gotten a lot of advice over the last week or so as this has been going through, and “don’t let this define you” hit me the hardest and I think is the truest and best advice I’ve gotten. Thank you, and I really mean that.

Just got served divorce papers for my SECOND divorce before turning 35. First one I was an idiot, got married too young. Got my girlfriend of 6 months pregnant and asked her to marry me because I thought that was the right thing to do, she miscarried, and then I didn’t call it off because we were bonding through grief. Now this second marriage - she had dumped me twice because she “wasn’t happy”, but the second time she came back and begged for me to take her back, which I did. We got married 1 year later to the date (because August 15th was a “special date” for us). So TIFU by breaking my rule of taking someone back who dumps me, and getting divorced a second time as a result…