Sounds like she has a bad husband at home, and your husband, who sounds like a loving great guy, is probably just kind to her and she is seeing what a good husband is supposed to look like.

She's asking because she doesn't know what a loving relation ship is.

At least this is what I got from your post, I could be wrong.

This is a very odd thing to put together, but it's weirdly fascinating.

I was gunna say, this is like pure high or drunk meal, nothing really works together but Goddamn if it's not a tasty ride.

Oh.....fuck yes.