wow, his version of friendly is fucking? i wonder if you did that with a man, would he still consider it friendly? he'll be back soon and make you beg for his presence in your life, don't do it. feelings < respect, loyalty and avoiding the risk of std's.

you better. this time you caught him with a dating app, next time it's an std. herpes for example which is incurable. get tested regularly if you want to tolerate this and tell him to atleast use condoms.

HA no chance. This further shows how untrustworthy he is. He'll say anything to get the results he wants. You were strong, you walked away. Now stick to that decision. This is not the best you can do, not even close. You don't need to listen to his bs anymore, he lost that privilege when he cheated. Edit: Because I'm petty, I'd make him put his money where his mouth is. Let's see that forgiveness in action. hey, not the most mature approach but it sure would be funny.

You know how we can't tell who's a bad person and who's not, it's not like they walk around with 'predator' written on their forehead right? This man just told you. He showed you before, now he's doubling down.

How would he have reacted if you were messaging multiple men, trying to screw them? Imagine his reaction. Then consider if you sending him presents would've made it all a-ok. Probably not right? What's worse, nothing physical may have happened till now but how long before he finds one who agrees. You got out with no kids, no marriage, no ties to him and no STDs. Don't give him a chance to change that.

what's the point of being so moral ? he doesn't want it from you, you need to consider that he may already be getting it from someone else. your happiness matters, definitely matters more than someone who doesn't love you the way you deserve.