ImAmandaLeeroy

ImAmandaLeeroy t1_jeei21i wrote

You would have liked to be included, but you weren't and you let him know it bothered you. This seems like a normal reaction, since in the past he's been excited to share ideas and plans leading up to it and this time it was just a statement of this is happening.

It doesn't seem like you're upset about the tattoo, just the fact you weren't included in the way you were accustomed to. And frankly I would be hurt by that too.

If he doesn't get how that would upset you, there may be more to talk about as to how you communicate within your relationship.

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ImAmandaLeeroy t1_iuhwsua wrote

To all the twats saying restaurants should just pay a livable wage to their employees, I would just like to point out- The US federal minimum wage is only $7.25 and well below livable standards to begin with.

To think somehow restaurants would go above and beyond to support their employees when they've been getting away with giving them the barest amount is unthinkable. And if they were forced to do so, they would just pass the cost on to the customer by considerably raising the cost of menu items.

The entire federal system would have to be overhauled to ensure all hourly rates at 40 hours a week could support each individual worker to a well defined and comfortable standard of living. And it ain't gonna happen in CorpoAmerica.

So either tip your server or know you will be enjoying a nice spit sandwich once you get pegged as the stingy bitch who doesn't tip at your favorite place to haunt, you absolute ghouls.

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ImAmandaLeeroy t1_iufnk2d wrote

Nope, we're mad at the d-wad that ran us ragged, asked for 8 free refills of soda, modded every item they ordered, and camped at the table for 2 hours and had the audacity to leave a dollar tip.

Everyone knows US restaurants work on tips, if you can't afford to or don't believe in tipping stay home and cook for yourself.

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