I didn’t mean I was gonna stop telling people it’s not true, I meant it was up to her now if she wants me in her life anymore…

I tell people when it comes up and I’m there, but I can’t quash it when I’m not there, and yes I should have told her, but other than that I feel I did what I could

This is really great advice, thank you sm, I’m actively trying to better myself, it was naïve and selfish to do what I did, and I am adamant I won’t let something like that happen again

Looking back you’re completely right, I was just stupid and naïve to think that nothing would come of it

Wow, thank you for pointing out what I already know with that very constructive criticism

I think move on is the best thing to do, but it’s painful and I think will be very awkward between us for a while

We have spoken about it, she just does not believe that I was not active in spreading it

I know that now, I’m just devastated it took this to find out