Eh I kinda believe this, for the same reason I don’t ask my partner who they think of when they masturbate. There are some questions you don’t want the answer to, and if there’s no harm then there’s no foul in my book. Watcher may have been a better term here, though, for connotation sake

More like “if” they do something, though that is perhaps a pretty likely if in the case of stalkers.

Yet many problems exist because some don’t hold themselves to the standards that most do hold to, such as with litterers, murderers, rapists, etc. They are the misguided minority.