Jane_Says_So
Jane_Says_So t1_jea4som wrote
Reply to comment by Kalaanii in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
He’s showing you who he is. Believe him. If he doesn’t respect your boundaries, why do you think he’d respect the children’s? He can’t be a good father and be disrespectful to their mother. It just doesn’t work. This is not a person I’d ever have kids with.
Jane_Says_So t1_jea49b9 wrote
Reply to comment by Kalaanii in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
Do you think he’s going to respect your boundaries as a mother? What about the children’s boundaries? This is a recipe for disaster and dysfunction. It’s already started.
Jane_Says_So t1_jea3x2k wrote
Reply to My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
Honey, run.
Jane_Says_So t1_jea8ytd wrote
Reply to comment by Kalaanii in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
This is not a substitute for respect. That’s not “super caring and nurturing”.