My dude, my first crush was Gadget Hackwrench, and Lola Bunny deffo did my young ass in. Solidarity, they just lack courage, conviction, or imagination... Possibly all three.

Definitely a critical part of the conversation.
"Are you in a committed relationship with anyone? Do they know you're also dating other people?"

If both these answers are yes, or the first one is no... You're gold.

The thing that astounds me here is the sheer audacity of someone knocking and then opening the door without waiting for a response. I had it out with my mother-in-law several times before she finally stopped doing that shit.

(My wife, mother-in-law, and I all got a house together.)