Ich wünsche dir beides.

Ja, du hast recht. Es hat keinen Sinn, nach dem Warum zu fragen. Aber viele machen es halt trotzdem. Ich wollte nur wissen, wie du so drauf bist.

Kann man irgendwie dazu beitragen, dass du eine schöne Zeit hast?

Mann, da hast du ja echt die A-Karte gezogen. Was wünschst du dir für die Zeit, die dir noch bleibt? Was möchtest du gerne noch machen oder erleben?

Machst du dir Gedanken darüber, warum es dich erwischt hat, also ob du irgendwo verstrahlt wurdest oder Umweltgifte abbekommen hast? Oder nimmst du es, wie es ist, und versuchst dir noch das restliche Leben schön zu machen?

I see.

Why are you using the word „werkzeug“ here? That’s German for „tool“.

If he was „so excited“ to meet you and then ghosted you, he may have had second thoughts because of his own insecurities, and there’s probably nothing you can do to help him with that. He has to get over it himself.

Also, he may have had a death in the family or an emergency of some kind and hasn’t been able to focus on anything else but the situation in his family.

I usually think of possible scenarios when someone ghosts me and then tell myself: so they weren’t ready for me/a new relationship at this precise moment, and that’s okay. The ghosting shows that for some reason or other this wouldn’t have worked out. So I don’t need to waste any more thoughts on this snd can move on.

I take the remains to work the next day so that I don’t eat too much within too short a time. My colleagues are fast to finish it all, no matter how much I bring.

I bake several cakes for my birthday and ask a few friends beforehand if they have time for coffee and cake in the afternoon. I am happy if people call, but I don’t mind if they don’t, as long as a couple of people show up to share my cake.

Oh sorry, I thought I had read everything. But my memory isn’t what it was…

So when you write everything was dubbed later, you mean I won’t hear your original voice in any of the films, right?

But did you actually have any contact with the real stars of the films? Did they talk to you at all?

So you still live in China? How did your local friends react to you working with movies? Were they envious in any way?