I just need a clarification because I made the mistake of clicking your post history.

Is a person that's into gumball porn judging another for jacking off to intentionally oversexualized anime?

(Not that I'm saying it's wrong, just the double standards much...)

Firstly, stop bringing friends and dates home. Only do that when you're ready to defend them and fight your parents. Secondly, don't take dating advice from a predator, which I'm sorry to say, but your father was. Do things you feel right. And if you're going to date like an adult, try to act like one too, and stand by the people you put under fire of your parents.