Kalaanii
Kalaanii t1_jea9co2 wrote
Reply to comment by Deedogg1304 in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
Been to prison for a while and had to take care of family members for years even in his 20s
Kalaanii t1_jea6jvv wrote
Reply to comment by tinkertots1287 in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
But it doesn’t make sense how we have such long conversations on the phone like hours and we get along so well even irl it’s just that it feels like he’s using me which upsets me & he had life experiences which kinda made him not mature as much so that’s something I can accept and be understanding of
Kalaanii t1_jea60go wrote
Reply to comment by tinkertots1287 in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
The thing is I’ll bring up him using me for sex and he completely flips out and says I’m not and “if he’s using me for sex I am too” which def isn’t the case because I’ve asked him multiple times to hang out without sex but I feel like people saying it is kinda just proof I’m not crazy or delusional for feeling used
Kalaanii t1_jea5780 wrote
Reply to comment by Chaoticgood790 in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
Not grown just did my fair share of dumb shit I just wanna settle down young and have a family
Kalaanii t1_jea548x wrote
Reply to comment by Ok-fifi-78 in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
Well to be fair he did lie about his age at first I thought he was 26 (he looks 26) so it wasn’t intentional
Kalaanii t1_jea4yyl wrote
Reply to comment by Chaoticgood790 in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
I used to do weird crazy shit drunk when I was younger now Im over it
Kalaanii t1_jea4u0k wrote
Reply to comment by Hal_Jordan55 in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
He has a lot of wisdom and he’s super caring and nurturing like w/ his family members and me too
Kalaanii t1_jea4fpe wrote
Reply to comment by Jane_Says_So in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
I really dont doubt him being a good father idk how he would treat me but I hope if someone mothers their child theyd be respectful
Kalaanii t1_jea4101 wrote
Reply to comment by Jayybirdd22 in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
My parents would murder me if they found out and I really can’t even live like a “normal” young adult lifestyle bc of my parents
Kalaanii t1_jea3tsj wrote
Reply to comment by mak-ina-myn in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
My parents are okay they give me everything I need and I guess in hindsight they’re good parents just a little abusive at times physically and verbally and just very religious
Kalaanii t1_jea34nq wrote
Reply to comment by HatsAndTopcoats in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
We had another incident where it seemed kinda rapey but he flipped out when I said it was but i dont think he intends to hurt me he just goes for an hour but he does acknowledge I start drying up and like I’m not into it anymore so it’s a weird thing to think about
Kalaanii t1_jea1ad2 wrote
Reply to comment by spilgrim16 in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
He hasn’t had like the typical life of a 37 year old so I kinda get his perspective and he wants a kid before 40 and I want kids young so w that aspect I think we match but he definitely doesn’t respect my boundaries
Kalaanii t1_jea11ks wrote
Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
Not a troll acc unfortunately & have all proof to back everything up but maybe I do need therapt
Kalaanii t1_jeae15r wrote
Reply to comment by PeachCinnamonToast in My (f18) partner (m37) has sex with me for too long and I feel like it’s disrespectful by [deleted]
I got proof queen❤️