Hey - you put yourself first, and that’s 100% acceptable in that situation. You are allowed to take care of yourself, and if your boyfriend loves you, he will listen to you if you decide to tell him about why you left in the first place. He’ll understand!
Kenrenkins t1_j1t2xgg wrote
Reply to Tifu by bailing on my boyfriend’s family’s Christmas by [deleted]
Hey - you put yourself first, and that’s 100% acceptable in that situation. You are allowed to take care of yourself, and if your boyfriend loves you, he will listen to you if you decide to tell him about why you left in the first place. He’ll understand!
You aren’t an asshole - you’re doing just fine. 💕