Key_Wallaby4604

Key_Wallaby4604 OP t1_jdljw7p wrote

I pretty much did respond like that when I was confronted because I was on the phone with my fiancé during the occurrence. Just wanted to reassure them I meant no disrespect. Imo asking did they have a good honeymoon is a surface level question because they were recently married.

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Key_Wallaby4604 OP t1_jdljp3r wrote

I personally did not assume her sexuality. Also please take into consideration that I have stated she has asked me personal questions as well. Hence the reason I was confused when she asked me why was I being so personal when I asked the questions.

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Key_Wallaby4604 OP t1_jdjbypa wrote

Yeah. This did not cross then forefront of my mind during the occurrence. Hopefully she didn’t think I was offering to be their donor. Rather forthcoming and quite frankly disgusting to offer that to relative strangers lol. But we live in a world where someone would so definitely a possible she interpreted it that way.

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Key_Wallaby4604 OP t1_jdjbiou wrote

Not at all. Understandable and reasonable suspicion for sure. Imo it would have been pointless to post the story if I left out any details like that. Would really be no reason to be surprised by her reaction if I asked anything more intrusive than what was stated. Again, it’s Reddit though and your suspicion is legit! Lol

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Key_Wallaby4604 OP t1_jdiucia wrote

Yeah. Again we have had nothing but pleasant interactions previously. Joking and similar surface small talk. I would see if I asked her was she happy in her marriage or something along those lines. She would have every right to implode on me in that case.

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Key_Wallaby4604 OP t1_jdit5w6 wrote

I understand and would agree if I had not stated in my post that Ashley has asked me personal questions previously. I also stated the questions I asked were in context of the three way conversation with the other customer. I just don’t go randomly talking strangers heads off about personal matters.

I would say I read the room fine all things considered. Hence the reason why the situation took me off guard. I have no problem admitting I was wrong or out of line. However, I don’t think this situation calls for that.

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