Kind_Fishing3821

Kind_Fishing3821 t1_iuk9vd2 wrote

Honestly best thing to do is together come up a list of house rules with a punishment (embarrassing or other) and then everyone signs it as proof of contract make a load of copies for everyone and also scanned into a computer if they break (x) amount of rules they have 6 month time frame to find a new place to go

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Kind_Fishing3821 t1_iuk1riv wrote

Of course I'm going through it myself wjere im in your bf shoes. Except I haven't talked to anyone or anything she just thinks I'm lying so been slowly fixing with pretty much what im telling you, just remember don't get angry and talk, if either of you get mad seperate and cool down then finish talking

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Kind_Fishing3821 t1_iuk1151 wrote

So honestly, have you had to worry about him doing anything like cheating or lying before? If not then you should trust him, something us guys always struggle with is being called a lier when we haven't done anything. Another thing is have that communication, tell him "next time you message her or anyone else like that and it's harmless, tell me about it immediately. If you're lying about it we will have to talk about eachothers respect and trust." It sucks yes but it's worth the conversation

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