Then, what's the problem?

You either move or don't, you can't win anything without doing anything.

It's not like you are bound to one place with some unbreakable bonds.

Why resentment when the agreement has always been there?

If it won't work out, it won't. You'll just have more experience and will be able to move back since you, admittedly, have immediate family here.

If your immediate family will be sad, well, tough luck, people are not born to entertain other people - you'll be one plane and a couple of hours by car away from them, if anything. Internet also exists.

In regards to your kid. It's not like you are a military pair who moves every now and then, at this point a child will have almost the same amount of stress moving to a different city. For better or worse.

You can't make sure it works out without actually putting any work into it, you know.

So, it was always an agreement but once YOU landed a dream job, that's it?

It's about you resenting your wife, you being sad, you whatever.

And what about her? What about her resentment? What about her dreams?

When did you reach that agreement?

When did you get your dream job?

And what that supposed to mean?

That was yet another of your "incidents" and you were already bitching and moaning about her lack of interest regarding ... distance between two colleges?

Seriously? "Mah beliefs were shaken". And then crying in the comments that she's not thinking about you together. All this while expecting what exactly from her? Moving closer to your college? Or what? Was this drama for drama fake crying?

Bruh.

Are you in drama class?

You had no business thinking about your girlfriend's future when it involved her compromising on her education.

Especially only 4 months in.

Just like here - keep your nose out of her "incidents".

God forbid she shat in the same public toilet as her crush. Gosh, what an incident of all incidents would that be.

My advice is to grow up.

And stop calling someone being touched "an incident".

No, over your behaviour as per se.

You are not ready to stay committed to a single porn genre let alone to a mature long-term relationship.

Geez.

I'm having fun.

This is the first time in my life I saw someone calling a single girl being touched by a crush "an incident".

That's bizarre and I'm all for it.

Break up? Say goodbye? Throw away? Send back to your nanny?

Pick any. Or use Google, ffs.

Yeah, boy, thumbs up. Mature as your behaviour.

What are you going to whimper about next?

We got a post about "future" and "further education".

We got a post about times when she was freaking single.

What's next?

Just wondering...

Given your previous post, I'd boot you out, not check shit.

Again, going through someone's stuff is not "come across".

You violated her privacy, you are controlling, you are insecure, you are straight up immature.

Oh my gooood.

You checked her phone?

That was so not "came across".

Jezuz, you went so far as to violate her privacy.

Why is this not in the post? Oh, maan.

Pathetic.

Do you... do you know what the word "incident" means?

She was single and had a crush - none of this is your damned business.

Just like her plans for college. You know, we can see your post history.

That's not an incident. Her getting with you was an incident.

Her dealing with your shit is straight up tragedy.

If that's the same girlfriend as the one from his previous post, then I'd suggest running away from him as fast as possible.

He's already way too needy, way too exhausting and expects her to bend to his whims and insecurities.

However, if asked, he'd deny it as fiercely as one can.

What incident are you talking about?

What was the joke?

Come on, spill the beans.