He’s so cute! He kind of reminds me of Napoleon from the aristocats movie.

“Wait a minute, I’m the leader, I say when it’s time to go….~pause for dramatic effect~…let’s go”

Not attacking, just don’t understand why someone would bother asking for advice if they don’t want to hear it.

If the all of the comments here are saying the same thing, maybe you should reconsider where you’re at in your life. Just saying.

Doesn’t make it any less gross, you were still a child.

I think you’re just a troll, honestly, which is truly sad.

Because he’s a pedophile and preyed on a young teen with self esteem issues.

You’ve received 70+ comments worth of advice, so maybe you should take your own advice of “stop lying or go”.

You did…when you posted here looking for advice that you don’t want to take.

So, why bother posting here? My guess is troll/rage bait, or you really are that clueless to what’s happening here.

To be fair, you are using a throw away…

Yup. I’m in my mid-30’s now and the thought of a relationship with a 19 year old is cringy.

Yes, he is a creep, it also doesn’t matter who fell in love first.

A normal 30 year old would have shut you down, and explained why it is inappropriate. Instead, he fed those feelings to get what he wants from you.

This entire post is just gross. I hope you’re just a troll.

If on the off chance it’s not a troll post, break up with this creep and go live your life. Of course he wouldn’t want you to go to college, it would teach you to be more independent and self reliant. He needs you to “need” him to feed into what he’s been doing since you were what, 15?

This dude is not your “knight in shining armor”, he was grooming you. Get out and get therapy for the self esteem issues.