LaSorbun t1_j6lspom wrote on January 31, 2023 at 5:50 AM

Reply to My (M39) partner (M39) of 6 years kept his HIV diagnosis a secret for the past 6 months by ThrowRA_needs_help

There was another post that I read just now and the gal was saying that her boyfriend convinced her to take of the condom and he finished inside of her and everyone is reading her the riot act about how awful it was. You should check it out. Like you, she seemed to not be freaking out enough about this bullshit. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/10pjhdy/my_f19_new_bf_m23_has_an_std/

Just swap out the gender and relationship details and pay attention to how selfish and fucked up this is.

LaSorbun t1_j6lav98 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 3:10 AM

Reply to comment by trishsf in I [30M] found lingerie I’ve never seen before in my wife’s [24F] work bag. by [deleted]

>I confronted her about it and she told me she tried it on.

I think she was telling the truth when she said she didn't have them on for very long...

LaSorbun t1_iujdqvv wrote on October 31, 2022 at 7:45 PM

Reply to comment by AlHazard33 in I worry I’m being selfish with sex by Forrelatiobshipadvjc

>And a part of me does like what we have going on at the moment because it’s easy

A lazy lover would get old so fast.

Fulfillment rarely comes from taking the easy path. You may want to take some initiative before he starts realizing what he might be missing out on. You may be his first, and he might not feel like he's missing anything right now, but you better hope he doesn't have friends or the internet because he's going to find out some day that there are women that are really enthusiastic about receiving AND giving.