LadyGreyIcedTea
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jdfpco2 wrote
Reply to Interesting Globe article about how DCF avoids going through the courts when they take custody of children by dazzlingupstairz
This case is extreme but, to be perfectly honest, in 16 years as a pediatric nurse I have seen DCF do too much twice (both cases involved children with undiagnosed osteogenesis imperfecta and unexplained fractures) and do too little too many times to count.
Someone in this case had to have filed a 51A against the parents otherwise DCF wouldn't have even known about it. It was a report of suspected abuse and was probably screened in as an emergency response, which led to the middle of the night response. If DCF hadn't removed these children and it actually was an abuse case, the outcome could have been deadly.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jc4e42k wrote
Reply to comment by nikneto in Can a former employer mention that someone was let go in a reference in Massachusetts? by Limulemur
>So they can't say they fired someone
If the person was fired they absolutely can.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jc4dq3b wrote
Reply to comment by andrewb610 in Can a former employer mention that someone was let go in a reference in Massachusetts? by Limulemur
Only if those remarks were false.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jc4depu wrote
Reply to Can a former employer mention that someone was let go in a reference in Massachusetts? by Limulemur
They can say anything as long as it's factual.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jc4d0kn wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in In desperate need of housing by [deleted]
You're not getting anything close to a 3 BR 1B in MA unless you're willing to pay like $2K/month and finding that for $2K would be a steal.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jbtllu6 wrote
Reply to comment by ZetaInk in Coworker working overtime without getting paid legal? by stevester90
*FLSA. FMLA is the Family Medical Leave Act. FLSA is the Fair Labor Standards Act which governs things like required overtime compensation for non-exempt employees.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jbtlfkz wrote
Reply to comment by stevester90 in Coworker working overtime without getting paid legal? by stevester90
If they are considered exempt then they don't get OT.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jbtl9qb wrote
>Long story short, my supervisor is a moron that will eventually get our work into some OSHA violation because some workers are working more than 40 hours per week and not getting paid overtime for those hours.
This isn't an OSHA issue, it's a DOL issue. OSHA is the Occupational Safety and Health Administration.
You mention your co-worker was recently promoted. If they were promoted to a salaried/exempt position, they are not required to be paid OT for hours worked beyond 40.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jbm49w6 wrote
Reply to comment by particular-potatoe in Relocating from NYC to MA, where to live? by cclove96
I live in one of the mentioned areas and certainly OP can find somewhere in their budget here but it won't be feasible to commute to Hopkinton without a car.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jbm42eh wrote
Reply to Relocating from NYC to MA, where to live? by cclove96
Hopkinton is not really accessible by public transportation. The towns you listed that you are considering living in have commuter rail access but it is not feasible to commute to Hopkinton from any of those stations via public transportation. I am from the next town over and Hopkinton is not the place to work if you need to rely on public transportation.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jb190pq wrote
Reply to Venue for small wedding suggestions? by ikrakenmyselfup
You can have a wedding for free at the Arnold Arboretum in Boston for 40 or fewer guests.
https://arboretum.harvard.edu/visit/visitor-tips-and-guidelines/
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jajy88y wrote
Reply to comment by New-Vegetable-1274 in I have a driver’s license that will expire in 2024 but I want to upgrade it to the real ID. by throwaway_wama
Yes you can. Real ID enforcement hasn't gone into effect and has been postponed until 2025.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jajy1yd wrote
Reply to comment by throwaway_wama in I have a driver’s license that will expire in 2024 but I want to upgrade it to the real ID. by throwaway_wama
The need for a real ID doesn't vary by airline. The TSA is the only one who looks at your ID at the airport and the date that Real ID enforcement goes into effect is 5/7/2025. It was supposed to be this year but got pushed back.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jajxu0i wrote
Reply to I have a driver’s license that will expire in 2024 but I want to upgrade it to the real ID. by throwaway_wama
Why not just wait until you're due for renewal next year? You won't need a Real ID before your current ID expires in 2024, the date got pushed back (again) until 2025. I got a Real ID in 2020 and I'm going to end up renewing it before I ever need it.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_ja6530u wrote
Reply to (MassHealth question) Forgot to cancel MassHealth and was re-enrolled but have insurance through work, possible penalties or tax issues? by [deleted]
It's possible to have both private insurance and MassHealth. MassHealth just becomes secondary in that scenario and covers things like deductibles and co-pays from the primary insurance. So no, there's no penalty for having 2 insurances as this is common and something many people have. If you qualify for MassHealth, you should always have MassHealth.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_ja586gm wrote
Reply to What does the Transit Police do? by PresidentBush2
A co-worker's spouse is an MBTA policeman. I know he often signs up to work the Gillette train on Patriots game days or during certain concerts. They ride the train and then "police" a certain section of the stadium.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_ja57u7u wrote
Reply to comment by TheAVnerd in Why are BC Lacrosse games closed to the public? by TheAVnerd
Pretty sure the games will be free once they are somewhere where spectators are allowed. To my knowledge, the only BC sports that charge admission are football, men's hockey and men and women's basketball. (Women's hockey games are free.)
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_ja4btw8 wrote
When I lived in Brighton, I went to Brigham and Women's at Newton Corner and had a good experience there.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_ja1fymb wrote
Reply to Skiing in MA by Professional-Fix6119
I'm not a skiier but, if anything, I would think it's worse now. Other than 2015, we have gotten relatively small snow totals in recent winters.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_j9rnkb7 wrote
Reply to comment by Exact-Ad4764 in I fucked up at a red light by Exact-Ad4764
That's not going to happen in MA. If a cop didn't witness it to pull you over, you aren't getting cited for it.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_j6yytg0 wrote
Reply to comment by Cameron_james in School Districts for Hard of Hearing Child - Winchester? Bedford? Other? by hound29
It depends on the district too. Some are more apt to outplace than others. I work with children with severe special needs and have seen Salem, for example, not hesitate to send kids out immediately (like at their initial IEP meeting prior to their 3rd birthday) because the magnitude of their needs was too great. There are also families of means who move to certain towns specifically because that town is known as more likely to outplace their child without a fight. Newton is a town that has that reputation within the local pediatric circle.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_j6xw76t wrote
Is your goal for your child to remain in-district with services or to be placed out-of-district? If Billerica cannot meet his needs in-district, they would be obligated to fund an out-of-district placement.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_j6gd3xm wrote
Reply to Looking for a good neighborhood to live in near-ish to Boston College (early 20s woman) by Physicccc
I lived in Cleveland Circle when I was your age. BC runs shuttle buses that will take you to campus from there. You can have your car there and park on the street but I would recommend taking the BC shuttle or walking to campus because student parking passes are astronomical.
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_j6g4sb2 wrote
Reply to comment by Full_Alarm1 in 8-month-old baby injured in Duxbury family tragedy dies, DA says by Jezebels_lipstick
To be fair, who has an easier time accessing mental health treatment? An affluent woman who in all likelihood has private health insurance and a husband who is able to work from home while she seeks treatment or a woman of lower socioeconomic means who is on MassHealth and who doesn't have family support?
LadyGreyIcedTea t1_jdpacqn wrote
Reply to comment by orangenavy in Where can I find native wild flowers/grass seeds by orangenavy
We didn't grow them from seed but we bought some native mint plants at Allandale Farm in Brookline in 2021 and it spread everywhere. I think we planted 3 plants and last year we had like 40.