No it's not. It's also not at all what I said. I said him and you changed him to all bi people.

I never said all bi people, I said it was him it was his issue. Never once did I say it was a trait that all bi people have.

On the contrary, I said it's not an excuse for cheating... pretty blantly. I also never stated bisexual people always cheat, never said that once. I was saying she needs not feel insecure in herself because he wanted something she didn't have and she has no reason to feel bad or guilty about that.

I'm not sure where you're getting the context that you are implying from other than it feels like you're trying to be defensive for the sake of being offended.

Don't feel bad or inadequate. None of it was your fault.

Don't feel bad about yourself either, since he was cheating with another man it's possible he was craving something you had no way of giving him. (Not an excuse for cheating) my point is that you don't need to feel bad about yourself because he was wanted to be with a man, and that has nothing to do with you and is in no way your fault.

Do your best to compose yourself and confront him. Get your answers and decide what you want to do.

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Screeming contest!!!!!

This might come as a shock, but us adults have sex too, and it's less of a big deal when you're older.

Unless she's really uptight about sex then it might be a different story, but she probably just giggled and put on some headphones to drown out the noise.