Sunk cost fallacy.

Do you think your debt is going to somehow disappear if you stay with him?

Cut your losses. You gambled on this guy and it didn't pay out. When you lose at the casino, you don't keep gambling.

Be honest with him. It might even turn him on that his dick will be the first in your mouth.

Don't be worried that you'll suck - that's the whole point!

Every guy is going to like different things, so just try something and ask for feedback. And don't just say "is that good?" Because he'll say yes.

Ask him does he want it slower? Faster? Wetter? A tighter grip?

But honestly, as long as you're not scraping him with your teeth, It's going to feel good.

Not sure about that one. It's definitely fraud.

Nope nope nope nope nope nope nope.

There is no good reason an older person in a position of authority would ever start a relationship with one of their underlings.

Do not contact her outside of the classroom. Do not reply to any personal messages from her. Keep your relationship as student/teacher only.

It's not rapey, it's rape.

Stealthing is a form of sexual assault and is illegal in many places. Not only that, but he came on your back.

He performed two sex acts on you without your consent. You should be calling the police, not debating whether to call him back.

Counseling. You need to learn how to communicate with each other.

What you feel is an unhealthy codependency.

You need to communicate better then. You could have just told him that. "Hey, still at the party. Might end up falling asleep so if I don't respond, don't worry"

This is just a whole ball of fucked up. I'm going to reply assuming you're not a troll posting the plot of a Jerry Springer episode or something.

Get yourself out of there.

A 35 year old should not be interested in dating a 25 year old.

You should not be so dependent on someone who has mistreated you like that.

Find someone else to stay with and then block all contact with her.

People can always say no, but sometimes people feel pressured to be agreeable.

If they're looking for someone themselves, why aren't you just sitting there so they can approach you?

Stop being a creep.

That's the accounting of what happened, but not why you felt the need to lie.

You could have just said "just getting ready to leave - be home soon". Then when your brother fell asleep you could have said "actually Dave fell asleep so I'm going to be home a bit later".

What feelings happened inside of you that caused you to lie?

Why did you feel the need to lie about when you got home?

Approaching people who look single at coffee shops is a big no-no.

People go to coffee shops to have coffee. Or to work. They don't go to be approached by single dudes.

Look on social media for singles events where people are specifically there to meet potential romantic partners. You'll have better luck and won't come across as creepy.