There is “we are friends and there is never a chance of us being a couple”
And there is “we are friends are you’re a cutie”
If you keep wanting to be in the second category of friendship, you need to accept all forms of friendship. However be aware you could also be accepting a soul-crushing invite to category 1 friendship.
Even if it’s category 2, you’re gonna have to act like it’s category 1, and never focus on that second category. Just go with the flow, and focus on being friends first, and nothing else. You cannot be in category 2 if you are not friends.
You may be in category 2 after doing something as ridiculous as proposing after a couple of months and this is your second chance, but you’re not going to get a third, and you’re going to have to play the long game — think years.
LightProof24 t1_jeemnyx wrote
Reply to My crush(20F) rejected me(20M) said she only wants to be friends with me by Rinzler_Tron
There are two types of “friends”
There is “we are friends and there is never a chance of us being a couple”
And there is “we are friends are you’re a cutie”
If you keep wanting to be in the second category of friendship, you need to accept all forms of friendship. However be aware you could also be accepting a soul-crushing invite to category 1 friendship.
Even if it’s category 2, you’re gonna have to act like it’s category 1, and never focus on that second category. Just go with the flow, and focus on being friends first, and nothing else. You cannot be in category 2 if you are not friends.
You may be in category 2 after doing something as ridiculous as proposing after a couple of months and this is your second chance, but you’re not going to get a third, and you’re going to have to play the long game — think years.