Liveware_Failure

Liveware_Failure t1_jegixup wrote

There's nothing about this that's ok. Pressuring someone into sex isn't something that you do to someone that you care about.

You're a person, not a vibrator, if he's horny tell him that he's got hands.

The issues here are pretty fundamental, it sounds like he barely sees you as a person, it's highly unlikely you're going to be able to 'fix' him. This dude is not ready for a healthy relationship.

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Liveware_Failure t1_jefu76p wrote

So you essentially forgave him without consequences. Really sorry to say this, but he's probably going to cheat again.

There's an amazing Maya Angelou quote which applies here. 'When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.'

You're worried about the wrong thing here, his childhood friend isn't the issue, your boyfriend is the person who cheated on you and only stopped when he got caught.

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Liveware_Failure t1_jacszpv wrote

The best thing you can do for your daughter is remove yourself from her life.

You don't care about anyone but yourself, if you did then you wouldn't have acted like you have then posted the most cringe thing I've read on this sub seeking sone kind of permission or forgiveness for the next awful move you're making.

You would be the worst role model for your child imagineable, so don't be, financially support your soon to be ex wife, and let them try and rebuild a healthy life without you in it.

And get therapy

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