Lymantria24

Lymantria24 t1_ixr5ri7 wrote

Yeah, I deleted the last 2 sentences, i noticed it too. But I'm still fully behind the rest of what I said. The least you can do is to at least read about this stuff. Women suffer a lot from most of the methods and men tend to just sit there and not bother at all. Or do stupid stuff like you did, causing even more pain.

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Lymantria24 t1_ixr4u67 wrote

Well. There are many reasons. 1. It's included in basic sex education. Now i don't know from what country OP comes from, so ill give him the benefit of doubt. 2. You enjoy going without a condom, the least you can do is find out about the way your girlfriend prevents pregnacy and read about it, especially the side effects. 3. He himself should also have interest in it, knowing how high the chances are to get pregnant with the chosen method of his girlfriend. 4. It's just basic knowledge, people talk about it. Like here. I'm sure he knew "kinda" what it meant when his girlfriend told him, so why not take 2 minutes to Google and find out the information?

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Lymantria24 t1_ixqp0tm wrote

Why didn't you know that? Holy shit, I would have been so goddamn mad you and probably would've broken up with you over this, since you know nearly nothing about birth control whereas she suffers through it

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Lymantria24 t1_ixpz2cm wrote

Have you and your girlfriend ever established such boundaries? For most people, hugging someone else than your partner is okay, for some it's not okay tho. If you ever talked about it and said its not okay, you should tell her and excuse, be honest and talk about it. It shouldn't be a big deal. If you never talked about it, then it's probably time to do so, she'll probably think it's fine

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