You need to accept that you are to blame for the choices you’ve made. It’ll be hard, but you aren’t blaming society, or circumstances. Once you can accept it, you can now start with the moving on phase; the rebuilding phase.
Let’s unfuck some fucks. First, you’ll have to stop comparing yourself to your peers. Live your life in your own lane.
Second, understand the difference between a job and a career. Let’s target a career now, not small jobs like djing at gyms. What career would I recommend for someone like you? Definitely not tech. However, I’d recommend something like recruiting. I know recruiters aren’t as much in demand as they were last year due to layoffs etc, however, there’ll still be a demand for them. You talk to people, set them up with jobs, and can also gamify the process, “how many candidates can I land this month? Can I beat my last record?”. Jobs where you can gamify objectives can play to your ADHD advantage. Similar careers include sales but it also comes with more stress.
Third, gamify your entire life. You are in a real world MMO and your skills are low. Grind out for a few levels, upgrade your gear.
Fourth, once you start making good money, for the love of fuck don’t spend it. Use it to make more money by investing. Invest in ETFs not individual stocks no matter what anyone tells you.
Fifth, go dark for a few months to complete your goals. You’re not on social media. You’re not hanging out with anyone else. You’re accomplishing your goals.
Incoherent thoughts but I am also really sleepy so gn
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Reply to [Text] How do you fix your life in your 30s after wasting about 8 years unemployed and living with family by sleeplessbearr
You need to accept that you are to blame for the choices you’ve made. It’ll be hard, but you aren’t blaming society, or circumstances. Once you can accept it, you can now start with the moving on phase; the rebuilding phase.
Let’s unfuck some fucks. First, you’ll have to stop comparing yourself to your peers. Live your life in your own lane.
Second, understand the difference between a job and a career. Let’s target a career now, not small jobs like djing at gyms. What career would I recommend for someone like you? Definitely not tech. However, I’d recommend something like recruiting. I know recruiters aren’t as much in demand as they were last year due to layoffs etc, however, there’ll still be a demand for them. You talk to people, set them up with jobs, and can also gamify the process, “how many candidates can I land this month? Can I beat my last record?”. Jobs where you can gamify objectives can play to your ADHD advantage. Similar careers include sales but it also comes with more stress.
Third, gamify your entire life. You are in a real world MMO and your skills are low. Grind out for a few levels, upgrade your gear.
Fourth, once you start making good money, for the love of fuck don’t spend it. Use it to make more money by investing. Invest in ETFs not individual stocks no matter what anyone tells you.
Fifth, go dark for a few months to complete your goals. You’re not on social media. You’re not hanging out with anyone else. You’re accomplishing your goals.
Incoherent thoughts but I am also really sleepy so gn