Voices can be altered to sound like anyone. But she’s so amazing because it’s her job. These scammers know exactly what to say to reel them in. Look how fast she got him to send her money. The first time he doesn’t send money, she will change and won’t be so wonderful. Of course he doesn’t give you money because you aren’t a professional thief. But at this point he cares more about her than you. Get out of this mess. Find someone who does care about you and isn’t gullible. You can try to talk to him and ask him to see what happens if he doesn’t give her money, but he might be a lost cause. People have sold their houses and given all the money to scammers. You’d be surprised how prevalent it is. I’m sorry for you and sorry for your boyfriend, but there is someone better for you out there.

It isn’t guaranteed that she will get pregnant from IVF but unfortunately it is expensive. However, if she does have a baby, make sure it is your father’s because it could be the pool boy’s. Your father won’t get a paternity test and would be angry if you asked, but you can test the baby against your DNA and get a sibling DNA match. However, unless he catches her cheating or she does something horrible, she is here to stay. Proving the baby isn’t his would do it, but don’t count on it. Sadly, your father is a lost cause.

He is being catfished. Unless he has FaceTimed her, it could be a guy from Nigeria. A picture isn’t enough because pictures are stolen all the time to catfish somebody. Why does she need his money if she has a boyfriend? He must be extremely naive to send money to anyone online, even you before you met in person. Online scammers are very good at finding a victim’s weak spot then bleeding them dry. And she (or he because it could be a guy pretending to be a damsel in distress) will keep asking for money until he has nothing left. Then they dump them and move on to the next person. Try to talk some sense into him. He is headed for a big, expensive fall.

You have the answer right here. Her parents did everything for her. Went to teachers and coaches and fixed all her problems for her. And she absolutely cried to them first because she couldn’t understand the teacher’s assignment or the coach was mean to her. Parents got involved and viola, problem solved. And now she is doing the same thing to you. She cries and you solve her problem. She’s too old to be behaving like a 10 year old. She absolutely needs therapy and may have a hormone imbalance, but it is just a habit at this point. Talk to her and point this out to her. But first tell her you are going to have a serious discussion and she can’t cry. Tell her she has to see a doctor and she has to stop crying over everything. Tell her she can learn to control it because you can’t handle it anymore. It is not adult and it is not attractive. Let her know you can help her with any problem she has but not if she cries first. She has to realize what is wrong, know her limits and ask for help - without crying. It won’t change overnight, but it will change if she wants to. Make sure she knows you will not listen to her cry and won’t fix her problem if she does. She can cry in her pillow or cry to mommy and daddy, but not to you. And if she doesn’t stop, it has to be a dealbreaker. You need an adult relationship.

It’s called a booty call. You go to his place for sex only and leave. It’s not even friends with benefits because he doesn’t see you as a friend. So, yes, you are being used by a man old enough to be your father. You are worth more than that. And if you want a FWB, get a hot young guy. And he wants a 19 year old to be mature? Come on, if you were mature you wouldn’t be with this POS.

You might be the best your husband has had but not the best his friend has had. Ask him what will happen if his friend is not impressed? Or worse, if his friend is so turned on, you are now the fantasy that his friend masturbates to. Does your husband really want his friends to think of you giving head to them? And if friend wants to join in while watching? There are so many things that can go wrong. Tell your husband you are glad he’s happy, but what goes on in your bedroom is private and you are insulted that he thinks it is a spectator sport. Next he will be asking for a threesome. Shut that down as well.