She doesn't say the videos were with multiple people anywhere. She says they were all made about 1,5 years ago. And yes it could still happen to me. I could think, o I'll delete those tomorrow or the thought that I had put other videos in that folder may never even strike me even though it should, I'm a real scatterbrain, maybe op is too.

I get you OP! if I had videos like that I could definitely forget about them. I can forget pretty much everything.

I had a tie in my underwear drawer when my now husband came to visit for the first time. It was supposed to be a gift to my ex from my little sister (like 12 years old at the time) she gave it to me and I just put it away and forgot about it. that happened like 3 years before I even met my husband. Opened the drawer 1000 times after that without even noticing. But my husband found it instantly when he looked in the drawer and thought... I dunno, that I was secretly longing for my ex, saving little mementos or whatever.

Could have ended the relationship, I had no way to prove that it was how I said. Now that he knows me he also knows that I could definitely do something like that.

Is your relationship worth fighting for though? He sounds really lame? And if you don't want to have sex in 4 days that early in the relationship I'm not sure you're that into him unless you want even less sex later in the relationship.

She may have put them there when they were still together and forgot about them before they even broke up. Could definitely happen to me.