Why is an estranged family member part of my Apple Family then? They could remove themselves if they want to. Also, even without airtags, if they’re in the family, their devices can be tracked if they allow it. These are all options that can be disabled by the user. Ideally, if they’re part of the family, they can see all of the AirTags that are currently attached to the family.

Another option, especially if you’re not one to continue to wear more formal/dress clothes, is to buy a cheap suit (used/thrift/cheap from like Kohls or something) that generally fits you (something a bit big is fine vs something too small) and then pay a tailor to do alterations so it fits you really well. If you’re not going to need a suit for more than just your wedding or a few weddings/events in the future, this might be your best cheapest option vs buying something new that you’ll only wear once.

I’m gonna say yeah, they should have an emergency 24/7 contact that can fix basic needs like heat in the winter.

At a minimum, they should be prepared and ready to provide alternative solutions when immediate needs can’t me met. If that’s space heaters provided until central heating can be fixed or alternate accommodations until the issue is fixed. They should at least make an attempt to remedy the serious problems immediately.