Keep putting your hand on that same hot stove. Maybe someday it won't burn you.

Depends on where he kissed her.

How about stop dating criminals and expecting them to behave appropriately?

I think the problem here is you going on Snapshat. Pictures of 💩? Disgusting.

Is he married?

>He disappears communication-wise every now and then and says there’s various reasons for these (work,life,etc)

I read this as (work, wife, etc). Hmmmm...

Why do I feel like this post is total bullshit?

You need to tell him how you feel. He can't read your mind.

I'm having trouble believing this.

Of course we want to trust those we love. But when the actions are so at odds with the words, something's not right. Trust your gut.

I'm so sorry. He's obviously doing bad things.

>Anytime I bring up their friendship he gets very defensive.

Red flag

>he cheated on his ex-wife with me

Red flag

>He had just re-download the app that night and when I opened it up he not only friended the lady from work but he also friended about 5 other girls.

Red flag

>He got very upset, compared me to his ex-wife, and said all women are the same.

Red flag

>So when I found out he added her without talking to me it made me very upset. When I brought up that I had asked for that he said he doesn't remember me telling him that. When I asked him why all of their texts were deleted he said he doesn't know. He said they either just disappeared or he deleted them and doesn't remember doing it.

Red flag

>But then he hides stuff and doesn't seem to understand why it's a problem.

Red flag

I mean, seriously, what else do you need?

Wrong sub

Where does all her money go?

Tell that selfish bastard no when he offers you the ring.